Have you ever heard of couple boudoir or intimate couple photography?
They are certainly nothing new, even if the international media, in recent years, have framed them as a crazy new trend in wedding photography.
Yet intimate couple photography is a stylistic trend that has been going on for many years and can
create some of the most special, beautiful and exciting photos of you and your partner.
Why would a couple want to have an intimate photo session?
The goal of an intimate couple's session is to capture your connection and
the mutual love you feel. And carrying out a session at your home allows you to bring out a particular intimacy.
In the past (but this is still the case now) the purpose of a couple's photo session was
that of taking one, or more, beautiful photos in order to create participation requests
to the wedding. Or simply photos to show at the wedding itself.
With a more intimate session, we began to focus on simply portraying the
couple with the aim of obtaining more personal shots, creating a memory of them and for them.
To this end, in this photograph we photographers try to capture the truth of youessence, without filters, without brakes but also without pressure.
However, this type of session should not replace the typical “photo shoot of
engagement", which is quite another thing.
Advice on choosing a location
If this is your first time, I would recommend that the location is your home because this is where you will feel
more comfortable. However, if your home does not have much natural light or is not the background anymore
picturesque, I recommend choosing a space such as a hotel or B&B. If your photographer has
having done several intimate sessions before, he can probably recommend some listings on Airbnb or otherwise help you with the search for the best location for you.
Some spaces in large cities may be small or lack natural light, so first
to book a place I would ask for the opinion of your photographers. An experienced photographer can tell you
immediately whether it will work or not. Sometimes photographers, like me, have a designated studio space for their boudoir/intimate sessions. If this is the case, be sure to ask for photos of the space or possibly previous work, to ensure it looks the part
aesthetics you are looking for.
Your photographer
Sessions aside, each photographer has a different approach to capturing the intimacy of
own pairs. But first of all you have to appreciate his style.
I always try to capture tasteful photos regardless of the specific type of shot. However, some photographers may be more suited to one type of photography rather than another, this is normal. Or, for example, someone might be more experienced in creating images of a more erotic type and with explicit nudity. And no style is necessarily better than the other, it just depends on your personal preferences.
It is important that during your research you look at the posts on the photographer's blogs and websites for
have a good understanding of how you capture the emotions of intimate sessions. I say
always to my couples that if you can see yourself in my images then probably
we were a good choice. I would also recommend meeting beforehand in person or
on Skype (and similar) to discuss the shoot and make sure you create a healthy and solid collaboration with the photographer.
The first doubts
What should we wear? Do we have to be completely naked?
Obviously, it depends. Intimate sessions can be beautiful and special with both clothes
than without. As I said before, the most important thing is that you feel comfortable. The
session may end with you and your significant other in your underwear/lingerie/naked, but it doesn't have to end that way.
The clothes you choose may depend on your comfort level and vision for the session.
I tell all my couples to plan their outfits based on the widest spectrum of possibilities,
which usually includes underwear and simple clothing. Wear the clothes you feel like
more yourself because if you feel comfortable, the photos will prove it.
Don't try to match each other exactly or it might seem forced. Think more about trying to tie together the styles of what you both wear.
For example, try not to counter too much. A bit of contrast can be something nice to look at but if one person is wearing something very fancy and the other is wearing a plain black shirt, it might look a little flimsy. risky. If the shoot is not at your home, be sure to bring plenty of options so the photographer can help you decide what you will wear in your photos.
Is an intimate couple's session right for us?
I believe an intimate session is right for almost every couple, no matter how much
are you shy or confident. As long as you stay in your comfort zone and enjoy your time with the
your partner, it will be a pleasant and certainly positive experience.
Be honest with the photographer if he starts directing you in ways that make you feel uncomfortable. A
unless you're a model, you'll feel a little "out of place" at the beginning of filming, it is
normal and it is the photographer's job to direct you and make you feel at ease. Don't think about it too much because after the first 5-10 minutes the worries and stress you were feeling will begin to gradually go away.
After all, I believe that most of the time the best photos happen when the
couple forgets about the photographer and enjoys the moment. An experienced photographer will be in
can make you feel comfortable in front of the camera and will have some tricks to
do to get reactions or emotions from you.
Be prepared to give, and receive, lots of cuddles from your partner on set. A good way to
getting a reaction from your partner is whispering something "dirty" or "inappropriate" to him
in your ear. The photographer may not be able to understand, but it will be almost impossible to
your partner does not have a reaction.
And, if you really want to go deep, I can recommend holding hands and staring
into the eyes for 1 to 2 minutes without breaking eye contact immediately before
session to create a special moment and a strong connection.
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